“It’s about respecting my religion, which orders me to oppress gays “
Talk about DUMB! Absolutely, fundamentally and INTENTIONALLY false! Christianity does not order anyone to “oppress gays”. This is what the left does to try to marginalize those who merely disagree with them. If you disagree with them YOU are the bigot, not them - even though they woudl absolutely oppress YOU for your disagreement. They are “enlightened” and ever-so-smug about it too. Liberals are the most bigoted people I have ever met.
Religion has NOTHING to do with the LAW of marriage. That is a distraction. Logic and reason dictate why society has no logical reason to endorse homosexual conduct.
Marriage is about the future.
Homosexual conduct does NOTHING for the future. It is just a sexual recreation fetish.