I have several liberal relatives myself. The simple truth is that most libs think the US and the West are the bad guys in the world. They think whites, Jews, Christians, heterosexuals, etc are all the big bad wolf. While the Muzzies and the radical regimes and anyone who declares war against the West need to be constantly defended. It’s tough to make sense of their moral inversions but they can’t possibly be merely “naive” as they act.
And that's why I cut off ALL contact with my liberal relatives/friends. They refuse to hear the truth of what made this nation the envy of the world and why many nations emulated our system to the betterment of their own societies.
I've even cut one of my own children out of my estate. The other who understands the values of conservatism will enjoy what I have left at end days, providing DC and California doesn't confiscate it. Blood is NOT thicker than wrong-doing.