A drunk 18 years old guy who wasn’t raised right, in an apartment alone with a girl, is a recipe for disaster.
It is NOT blaming the victim to say dont bring guys back to your place so easily.
I tell my nephew dont go to the bronx alone and wander after 2am.
What’s the difference?
Virginia Tech
exactly, it’s not “blaming the victim” to tell young women, “don’t be reckless”
IF something bad is done the perp is always fully to blame, but that does not mean it is smart to court disaster. I (a man) don’t go walking drunk late at night in dangerous neighborhoods; if I did and I was attacked, the legal blame would all be on the attacker, but still my behavior would be stupid.