They have no choice in the ship they are assigned. No more than where they are stationed.
Hubby spent 20 years in, with numerous moves, ships, and postings. Aboard the USS Midway during Frequent Wind Vietnam, USS Constellation Cuban Missile Crisis, Final cruise was the USS Enchon. Career was 60-80’s. Ret. SCPO.
Thank your husband for his service.
And thank you for your service. Yes, I mean you, as I know the wives and families makes lots of sacrifices in support of their men in the service.