Well, bah-humbug to you, too.
My compromise is that we only watch Christmas movies from Thanksgiving through the end of the year (and that’s a lot since we don’t have TV), and she decorates the house, and she cooks me fish sometimes.
Christmas to me is mall traffic (which I no longer do) credit card debt (which we no longer do) and cancer causing sweets (which I avoid as much as humanly possible). My southern gospel band wanted me to play Christmas and New Years with them. I said no can do, though I am singing in the Christmas choir tomorrow.
I think Christmas season is just too darned divisive these days. I prefer to celebrate it every day.
It’s one thing to not enjoy stringing up the lights, it’s another when you humble brag that “you celebrate everyday” unlike we “secular” rubes out here. But whatever, not worth the argument.