This stuff scares me. I have a friend a few years younger that was very effeminate when he was young. Dad wasn’t exactly Chuck Norris level manly, but straight. A lot of people I knew were pretty convinced he was “one of those”. He just grew out of it. Then when the testosterone started flowing Sissy Boy vanished. A couple of years later I was jealous of his pick of the best girls. He’s happily married to a beautiful, smart, and talented (they are both good musicians) woman. They have three children. I hate to think how catastrophic his life would have been had his parents decided to show the world how progressive they were by butchering the kids body and telling him he was really a girl.
Hammer, meet head of nail.