It sounds like they were after some very high value intelligence
Human or technical
A drone would have taken everyone out but also,destroyed material that was worth risking American lives to,obtain
Anyone gets pissy about Trump killing a kid needs to be reminded it was not the intention of the raid
However obama droned both the father and separately, his 16 yr old American son and it was intentional
They recovered laptops and other stuff relating to other terrorist groups and plans. I think the attack was primarily for that reason. I’m guessing that if everybody just quietly surrendered they would have been taken alive.
I know if someone breaks down my door at 2:30am, my first instinct would not be to raise my hands.
The terrorists we were looking for were hiding amongs their womenfolk, as they always have done, at least as far back as Op Restore Hope in Somalia if not much earlier.