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23 Dangerous Things You Should Let Your Kids Do
The art of manliness ^ | June 28, 2017 | Brett and Kate McKay

Posted on 08/09/2017 4:50:01 PM PDT by vannrox

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To: Alberta's Child
You ain’t lived a real childhood unless you have a four-alarm fire to your credit. LOL.

Heh. I don't think it rated four alarms, but I can claim one big enough that it reminded the local forestry guys that a controlled burn was needed in the area.

141 posted on 08/09/2017 10:10:19 PM PDT by Charles Martel (Progressives are the crab grass in the lawn of life.)
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To: vannrox

Left off BB gun wars, creating tunnels in snow banks, X-game type snowmobile jumping, building a treehouse way up there, catching hay bales as they were shot at you from the baler, seeing if the new unbreakable bottles would break if thrown from a very fast moving care against a guardrail post, playing mumbly peg, shooting arrows straight up into the air and seeing who would not run (O.K. that last one might be a little foolish).


142 posted on 08/10/2017 2:14:57 AM PDT by Revolutionary ("Praise the Lord and Pass the Ammunition!")
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To: xrmusn

Hehehehe...one of the touchstones to appreciating the things you have in life, no matter your station, is the understanding that someone always has it worse than you.

As you looked over the fence at them, you must have had that insight in spades!


143 posted on 08/10/2017 4:10:03 AM PDT by rlmorel (Those who sit on the picket fence are impaled by it.)
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To: vannrox

——Hammer a Nail-—

I watched the extensive construction of my neighbor’s new deck last week. No nails......

The fastening was totally with screws installed with cordless screw guns.


144 posted on 08/10/2017 4:14:22 AM PDT by bert (K.E.; N.P.; GOPc;WASP .... The Fourth Estate is the Fifth Column)
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To: vannrox

The nearest school to my hood is four miles away down a curvy two lane road. So no.

Most of the other stuff in the world today - OK but with adult supervision.

Well maybe not:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACtiDeZRe-w


145 posted on 08/10/2017 4:18:14 AM PDT by mad_as_he$$ (Not my circus. Not my monkeys.)
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To: vannrox

Caught a small snake, tied a shoelace around its neck and put it on the handlebars of my bike(dad saw it after awhile and realized it was a copperhead. I handled every snake even back then like it was poisonous unless I knew for sure.

Road my bike (no handed) for miles. Road to the next town many times. Explored woods, picked more ticks off myself than the dog sometimes.

Aww freedom!


146 posted on 08/10/2017 5:32:23 AM PDT by June2
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To: vannrox

In other words, a normal childhood.


147 posted on 08/10/2017 5:45:04 AM PDT by Professional Engineer
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To: Garth Tater

Yea, but the Crossman M-1 carbine killed it in rate of fire. Hold down the trigger and pump the barrel to load and cock it, and you could get darn near automatic it seemed.


148 posted on 08/10/2017 6:02:47 AM PDT by AFreeBird
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To: vannrox

May want to rethink the car thing. From our local news (BTW, check out dad’s age):

NEW HAVEN, CT — A 25-year-old father suffered life-threatening injuries after his daughter, 11, accidentally backed a car into him during a driving lesson Wednesday evening, according to media reports. The father is currently listed in critical condition, reports Fox 61.

Police say the father was a passenger in the car as the daughter was practicing driving in an apartment parking lot on Grand Avenue just after 5 p.m. But the child ended up hitting reverse instead of drive, and began to leave the parking lot, Fox 61 reports. At this time, the father jumped out of the car in an effort to get control of the car but he ended up pinned between a tree and the car, Fox 61 reports.

The car ended up striking a house, according to reports. The father was conscious at the scene and he was taken to Yale-New Haven Hospital but his injuries became more serious later on, WTNH News 8 reports. The child was also taken to the hospital as a precaution, according to reports.


149 posted on 08/10/2017 6:06:45 AM PDT by KosmicKitty (Waiting for inspiration)
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To: vannrox
The Art of Manliness posts some good articles, without a lot of PC crap thrown in...it should be embraced and celebrated by most men.
150 posted on 08/10/2017 6:08:00 AM PDT by Lou L (Health "insurance" is NOT the same as health "care")
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To: SamAdams76

Man, you pretty much nailed my childhood, too!


151 posted on 08/10/2017 6:09:52 AM PDT by Lou L (Health "insurance" is NOT the same as health "care")
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To: vannrox
When I was around the age of 8, growing up in Pittsburgh, I used to fish with my friends. We carried our rods down to the rivers--walking on public streets, through many neighborhoods, and usually crossing railroad tracks along the way.

My father didn't fish at the time, but I got a split-shot mold for my birthday once; my dad got a small ingot of lead, and showed me how to use a blowtorch and a ladle to melt the lead, and pour into the mold. I did this in our unfinished cellar, and never once came close to burning myself, or the house. My wife still can't believe it to this day, that a child would be allowed to do that.

152 posted on 08/10/2017 6:15:34 AM PDT by Lou L (Health "insurance" is NOT the same as health "care")
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To: vannrox
I did every one of these, as I suspect most FReepers born before 1970 or so did. The key is in this phrase from the author:

By giving them the responsibility of using a knife safely, Hewitt’s kids became responsible.

You teach responsibility by giving responsibility - a concept that is as true in the workplace as it is in grade school. Many Americans have never been given any responsibilities, and these keep voting for Mom in the form of the Democratic Party to handle all of their problems for them.

153 posted on 08/10/2017 6:27:56 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ([CTRL]-[GALT]-[DELETE])
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To: Carthego delenda est; dznutz

I did the bumper skiing thing after getting off the school bus back when I was about 10. And to prove a teen doesn’t think things through, I bumper skied on cars doing donuts in a parking lot that had bare patches of pavement exposed.


154 posted on 08/10/2017 6:45:34 AM PDT by Typelouder
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To: SamAdams76

Different world my FRiend.

You reminded me of one thing. Whenever we injured ourselves, we never went to my Best Friends Mom to be tended to. She always pulled out the Mercurochrome (yes, as in Mercury) red crap that stung to high heaven. She swore by that stuff. LOL

Instead we went to my House where my Mom used Hydrogen Peroxide, liberally pouring it on the wound. It didn’t hurt and the more it bubbled the better.


155 posted on 08/10/2017 9:11:25 AM PDT by Kickass Conservative (The way Liberals carry on about Deportation, you would think "Mexico" was Spanish for "Auschwitz".)
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To: rlmorel

Thursday at our House was Beef Liver night. I hated Liver as much as I hated Beets. YUCK, YUCK, YUCK!

I talked my Parents into letting me eat Dinner in the Den so I could watch TV. Our Family Dog joined me, and he really appreciated Liver night and my Mother’s Cooking. LOL


156 posted on 08/10/2017 9:19:11 AM PDT by Kickass Conservative (The way Liberals carry on about Deportation, you would think "Mexico" was Spanish for "Auschwitz".)
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To: Gay State Conservative; vannrox; All
"Cliff...nope.
Fireworks...nope.
Drive a car...maybe,going very slowly in a deserted field or parking lot.
Gun...nope"

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Come on, now!

  1. CLIFF: Their first "cliff" doesn't have to be anywhere near 20 feet. Even jumping off a single step will introduce them to the acceleration of gravity -- and the jolt of the stop. Let them keep increasing the height until they reach their limit for their age. (There are few things in life more valuable than knowing your own limits -- and, then, stretching them...) Of course, introducing them to injury-minimizing landing techniques is a most excellent idea.

  2. FIREWORKS: If you live in a wimped-out place that prohibits fireworks, it's worth a drive into the country where they (and you) can give them a try. Those tiny little "ladyfingers" are a far better way to start than sparklers, which can inflict lifelong burn scars. Just start by placing them on the ground, lighting, and getting clear. (They'll soon learn how far to run -- and reduce it as they gain experience.) They'll also learn how long from lighting to Bang! -- which is most useful if they ever want to graduate to throwing the things... No need to go with the big stuff -- but be sure to just abandon and keep clear of things that (apparently) fizzle...

  3. DRIVING: I started -- and started my kids and grandkids -- off-road -- on a tractor. It's amazing how soon they catch on... And the throttle and gearing can be set so low that you can step off, walk alongside, let them have the experience of "flying solo" -- and still step back on and take over before things go too far awry. You can literally see their self-confidence grow over a few minutes' time! (Even a riding mower [with the mowing deck shut off] will serve this purpose.) And they never forget that experience!!

  4. GUNS: Even though I start all our kids & grandkids with an air rifle, I take them to the range, and follow the same safety protocols and marksmanship discipline I'd use for a .50 BMG. Empty plastic medicine bottles make great reactive targets -- and they amaze themselves at how far they can back away -- and still hit them ...if they use proper technique. Then I move them up to single-shot .22 rifles -- which eventually become theirs... Interestingly, the granddaughters plead for more range time as much as the grandsons do... '-)

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Hate to say this, but it appears that you, yourself, may have missed some of these very important "rites of passage". Join the kids -- it's never too late to grow up a bit more!

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FWIW, I did all the things in the article -- and far more.'-) And, I'm now "on the return leg of my 80th orbit around our local star" -- and am still in one piece. And I attribute much of that life success to empirically and experientially-determined self-limits I learned as a kid -- with the freedom to learn by trial and error.

157 posted on 08/10/2017 9:52:18 AM PDT by TXnMA ("Allah": Satan's alias. "Islam": Allah's assassins; "Moderate Muslims": Islam's useful idiots.)
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To: ThunderSleeps
"For me, my childhood had everything listed but the penny on railroad tracks."

Too bad! We even figured out how to add crossed pins atop the penny -- held on with Scotch tape.

The result was a "shield with crossed swords" -- when things went right...

158 posted on 08/10/2017 10:17:00 AM PDT by TXnMA ("Allah": Satan's alias. "Islam": Allah's assassins; "Moderate Muslims": Islam's useful idiots.)
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To: TXnMA
Hate to say this, but it appears that you, yourself, may have missed some of these very important "rites of passage".

My attitude is based both on childhood experience and,*far* more importantly,on a career of 20+ years working in the ER of a large hospital.

I could tell you stories about things that I saw during those 20+ years that would make you weep uncontrollably.

159 posted on 08/10/2017 10:26:23 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (ObamaCare Works For Those Who Don't.)
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To: Mears
A couple of my sons did The Quincy Quarries swim———I was not pleased.

MY Dad grew up in Southie in the 20's and told me stories about his visits to the Quarries.He was a wild child! From stories I've seen you couldn't pay me enough to get anywhere near it.

160 posted on 08/10/2017 10:28:57 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (ObamaCare Works For Those Who Don't.)
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