“This is the right-wing man’s ideal.”
To be desired by attractive members of the opposite sex is every human’s ideal.
To a man, the visual is near the top of the scale. To the woman, success and power at the top of the scale.
Men want women to stay the same. To be the same woman they met at the bar, at the game, at the range.
Women want a man that they can change, or they will change. So they get tired of the man who is the same man they met at the bar, the game or the range.
To be surrounded by women, as a powerful man ? Sure. The same awesomeness that a woman would feel to have a man who is all things that she craves as well.
This isn’t a right or left thing. Nor is it an ugly thing to be ashamed of. This is how the human reproductive cycle works.
If I correctly understand your post, you’re agreeing with my original post, which stated that Hefner’s world is the right-wing man’s idea.