Posted on 11/24/2017 3:53:46 PM PST by Redleg Duke
Anything you are so obsessed over that you are keeping count of it is a sign that you do not have a mentally healthy about it.
Shrinks often ask folks to count such things to help insure they treat it more seriously and do it an adequate number of times to have some impact toward change.
No wonder so many people end up more screwed up by shrinks then helped.
Housemate has never ran into many people who own an aversion to hugging or cuddling--particularly in 1:1 conversations. Actually, he has a hard time thinking of one. Until you.
Try hugging me and you will end up with broken bones.
Obsessing over anything is not healthy. And that website is clearly obsessed.
That site does seem to perseverate on various themes. We think the author likes to cover every nuance possible. And, he certainly may be OCD.
BTW, an 'Avoidant Attachment Style' is not to be exalted in. It is extremely dysfunctional in a list of ways.
Keep your nasty hands to yourself and we will get along fine.
Happily the people I choose to be around are emotionally healthy people who don't go around counting things.
Are you warning us against Toyota owners? :-)
OMG...there IS a common thread! Well, this is great news, at least it isn’t Subaru owners!
How is it that you seem unable to detect/discern the difference between comfortable, mature, healthy enjoyment of physical, non-sexual affection freely given and received frequently throughout the day vs a desperate, insecure clingy-ness?
Or Volvo!
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