Christians are not required to forgive unless the sinner has truly repented and asked for forgiveness.
If the perp hasn’t done either then this is a decidedly un-Christian act.
Forgiveness isn’t a penny candy.
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Well, they’re more forgiving of her than I would be if she’d killed one of my relatives.
The family needs to ask themselves, WWTSRD? (What Would Tolerance Sucks Rocks Do?)
Well, I’d make sure she got at least 20 years, then, if she’s illegal, deport her ass. If, sometime during that time, she indicates she is truly sorry, THEN I would forgive her.