not all churches are as you say. not all church leaders are as you say.
leaders and churches are made of people with flaws and weak spots.
God, His word, is not corrupt. read and follow that and allow in your judgment for the fact we (all humans, believers or not) are flawed should you choose to attend a church.
Church attendance is to go and worship God first and foremost according to the bible. Anything else good you get from attending is a bonus. Take the focus off what do you get from church and change to worshipping God and what can you give while there (kind words to others, encourage the pastor on any part of sermon you liked, your tithe/offering, sign up to help out in some way, etc)
I don’t believe I said all. But if I haven’t, then let me say too many. Not just a few, but too many.