He wanted her to watch her language.
He didn’t want her to say they knew he was a predator. He just wanted her to say they knew he was a philanderer.
The difference being that one is criminal, and he does not want her saying -especially on-air- that they knew.
If you’re near a radio, flip on Mark Simone (WOR). He’s revealing Lauer’s insane methods of getting women. Buzzers, locked doors - sounds exactly like Bill Cosby.