biodad should have filed for a modification immediately
You think it is just that easy? From my own experience, it is virtually impossible as even having validated verifiable evidence doesn’t mean squat. I went through ten years fighting that battle that never got any closer than the day it started. The reality is this;
1. People need to get past the notion that lawyers are in it to ‘fight’ for others.
2. Lawyer’s are businessmen
3. Businessmen need to keep customers coming back to keep their lights on and the rent paid.
4. Lawyers, and therefore Judges who are lawyers, know where the main funding source is located, i.e., the breadwinner.
5. Men, as a rule, have to work so they will always, as a rule, be the primary source for funding.
6. Create the environment to make sure the customer keeps feeding the cash register.
Finally, today we do see legals firms that specialize specifically to representing men in domestic cases. I tried one during my nightmare. They would not even talk to me before I ponied up a large retainer to even hear or look into my claims that I had already documented for them.
So, I can sympathize with the father.