There are many different kinds of men and women. The real problem is that we’re far removed from considering realities, and many erroneous laws and policies based on unrealistic fantasies have been implemented.
Too many men and women are looking for a lifelong excitement that does not exist and wouldn’t even be healthy (manic-depressive dilemma). Too many people are expecting more from sex and mates than is realistically possible (occupies so little time in a life, people change, aging,...).
We have been educating our young people in neglectful, erroneous and wrongful ways for many generations. Romanticism must die again, and it eventually will, at least for a time. Very few people know what love truly is.
Word to wise young men and women: don’t befriend those of the opposite sex who are exciting. Befriend those who you feel comfortable and secure with. Befriend those who think of the future and plan for it. Remember that a few other acquaintances, neighbors and bosses might rather see you separated from your wife or husband and don’t want you to have a cohesive, prosperous and influential family.
Do not marry anyone who will not defend and protect you from libelous others with good diplomacy, strategy and self-discipline. If you own property, require that your prospective wife or husband sign a prenuptial agreement for your family’s sake. Romanticism is for perpetual losers who destroy themselves and their families with enemy propaganda.
Beware wolves in sheep’s clothing.
The point is, that we are all humans, though there are many that do not act like humans.