I met my wife at work. I had to stalk her to get her alone so I could talk to her without seeming to interfere with her work. We had been passing by each other, ok I made a point to pass by her, and smiling at each other. Beautiful - long black hair nearly to her waist. She flashed a smile at me and it was like a lightning strike. Caught her in our break room one day and asked her out. We dated on the sly for two years and got married. Everyone was surprised. 20 years later this would not have been possible.
White depopulation.
The pill + promiscuity (makes marriage a drag by comparison) + abortion + encouraging women to work while at their most fertile + draconian HR rules against men dating + #MeToo + "Yes Means Yes" + No-fault divorce + Child Support & Alimony + Children's Protective Services == all AGAINST the nuclear family, or anything that could lead up to it.
Because "this isn't the 1950s."
But somehow minorities and illegal aliens and Muslims are always exempt.
Back in the early 90s, I had two co-workers who secretly dated each other until one day, he put a ring on her and that naturally made it public. Good thing, because these days, even if it was consensual, there would be the risk of some third-rate ninny tattling on them.