Different world.
That's what I was thinking.
This kid might have been enterprising, or he might have been a coward...but he wasn't a blankety-blank victim.
Not just a different world. For many of our young it is a coddled world.
No kid today could take the conditions you did as a youngster. Surviving basic at 17 is an accomplishment.
Surviving a deployment (combat or not) in a war zone is an entirely different matter.
I tip my hat to your courage and strength of character. And as always—welcome home. (with accompanying hand salute)