Yet another officially recognized “disability” or “handicap”?
This thread may get some joking responses. I would just say, that if someone is that obsessed about sex, or lack of sex, in his life, he’s got problems.
So what is the solution? Official prostitution? But would that even solve the problems of such men, because they would be paying for it; the women involved would not be loving them for them?
Something is clearly wrong with such men.
Not to get too graphic, but I think many men here have “struck out” with women we hoped to connect with. These are among life’s disappointments which we all, all of us normal people anyway, learn to cope with and move on with life. If we can’t absorb such disappointments and move on, then again, something is very wrong with such an individual. He needs help before he explodes in a rampage.
For an increasing number of people, the only socialization they do is on-line. They have no friends, no girlfriends, only co-workers. The only sexual release they have is from pornography, the vast amounts of it give them the false impression that making porn is something every woman participates in. In short, they think all women have sex upon request with anyone who asks and for any reason and when these men aren't having sex, they're bewildered and angry.
How about we stop teaching children that sex is the be all and end all of life?
Starting in kindergarten the teachers push sex on the children like it was jelly beans. There is almost nothing they do not manage to work sex into.
Books for children and "young adults" are about nothing but sex, so are TV shows. Sex is the center of the world and getting laid is the ultimate must do.
What you eat, what hobbies you have, what you wear and where you go is all build about being sexy so you can have a, on average, ten minute physical encounter with someone you will hopefully never see again.
In what sane world does this make sense?
Do you really believe that?
Regards,
We now have generations of children whose parents gave them everything they wanted when they wanted it. They never learned how to deal with disappointment.