Everybody is supposed to get laid
Someone said the kid was involuntary celibate, I sure was at 17 - not matter how I tried, but dang I kept trying and one day succeeded in throwing off the bonds of celibacy.
There are a number of groups on the internet where "incels" meet, like on Reddit and other places. Wikipedia has an write-up on the subculture:
It seems to have started as a means of discussion but has become a place where many young men practice self-loathing and perpetuate negative attitudes while avoiding self-reflection. Definitely a place where unhealthy attitudes can germinate