[kaila]

I do not have children by choice. I saw my friends and collegues have children that turned out to be losers. I wanted a choice of who was going to be in my life, and having children was a crapshoot. Of all my friends, only one couple had children that turned out well. Another couple has a child who is scary mentally ill.

[Antoninus]

I wanted a choice of who was going to be in my life, and having children was a crapshoot.

Life is a crapshoot, dear. If it's not too late, reconsider. My more distant relatives who chose that life began regretting it deeply once they hit their 50s. Some of them are now in their 70s and 80s--they are utterly desolate. It's sad.

[fishtank]

God wants us to have godly offspring.