“He’s facing charges and a lawsuit because it took place in Long Island, that likely wouldn’t be the case in a sane part of the country.”
Perhaps there are jurisdictions where an adult male can shove someone’s else’s 12 year old child, but this incident occurred in New York State and that state’s criminal and civil procedures apply.
Let me guess: You are a New Yorker?
Ah! A brand new newbie! On the wrong forum, pal.