The problem is that, for a man, living in safety is not enough. We have to live a life of freedom. Its a manly thing that most women cannot understand. They want a safe, nurturing environment. They want to nest with nesting behaviors.
Yea, yes, yes and yes.
I think you do a disservice here to the many American patriots who happen to be women. Generalizations about the sexes is neither just nor accurate. Woman in the early days of our Country fought in disguise, binding their breasts to make America free. Women served the cause of Freedom in many ways. Sarah Palin would not thank you for your words, nor would Margaret Thatcher who turned back the tide of the welfare nation, for a time, in the UK.
https://www.legendsofamerica.com/heroes-patriots/
https://allthingsliberty.com/2013/10/10-amazing-women-revolutionary-war/