I’m not going to flame you, Dilbert. I cringe for some of my friends’ husbands. Some women I know make demands without giving anything in return. It’s not fair. Too controlling.
But just know that it isn’t ALWAYS the woman that is more to blame. Sometimes men pull away from all interaction etc, or otherwise irreconcilably break the vows, without a bad wife. It can go both ways.
Yes you are right. The bad behavior and problems in marriage go both ways. Some men treat their wives badly, I know.