Love? Love is not the isue.
Sex is the issue
The battle of the sexes is becoming an all-out war.
I shunned that as well because (a)you could pick up an STD or (b)you could have a psycho on your hands once you left.
Sex is a exquisite pleasure best saved for the one you are going to marry even if it means waiting and a few clumsy attempts the first few times.