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Study: 4 In 10 Men Have Experienced ‘Inexplicable Sadness’ After Sex
Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy ^ | 7/27/18 | Joel Maczkowiack and Robert D Schweitzer

Posted on 07/28/2018 12:51:26 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom

Having sex may feel like a badge of honor for many men, but for others, it’s an act that, once finished, brings about intense feelings of sadness. Researchers for the first time ever have identified that women aren’t the only ones who can suffer from this emotional tidal wave in the bedroom, better known as postcoital dysphoria, or PCD. PCD occurs when a person has enjoyable consensual sex with a partner, but is met with “inexplicable feelings of tearfulness, sadness, or irritability” afterwards.

...men can and do suffer from PCD which results in feelings of sadness, tearfulness or irritability following sex.

Researchers from the Queensland University of Technology say PCD had only previously been recognized in women, but after a survey of 1,208 men from numerous countries — including the United States, United Kingdom, Germany, and Russia — it’s clear that the condition is more common among males than one might expect. In fact, four in 10 participants recalled suffering from PCD symptoms at some point in their lives.

“41% of participants reported experiencing PCD in their lifetime with 20 percent reporting they had experienced it in the previous four weeks,” said Maczkowiack, a masters student at the university’s school of psychology.

As many as 4 percent of the individuals, who voluntarily participated in the online questionnaire via postings on social media and psychological research websites, said they battle PCD symptoms regularly. Men acknowledged that statements such as “I don’t want to be touched and want to be left alone,” or “I feel unsatisfied, annoyed and very fidgety. All I really want is to leave and distract myself from everything I participated in,” applied to them when thinking about times they’d made love. Others described feeling “emotionless and empty” even though the sex was otherwise satisfactory.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: marriage; psychology; sex
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To: DoughtyOne

Der Schleazemeister has done a lot of teachin’


81 posted on 07/28/2018 3:31:22 PM PDT by dforest (Never let a Muslim cut your hair.)
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To: DoughtyOne

LOL!


82 posted on 07/28/2018 3:34:25 PM PDT by Savage Beast (President Trump has remained steadfast! This is leadership! Steadfast, America! We shall overcome!)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

Maybe they only surveyed homosexuals who realized how dirty their act was.


83 posted on 07/28/2018 3:36:40 PM PDT by libertylover (I'm not arguing with you; I'm just explaining why I'm right and you're wrong.)
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To: DoughtyOne

My generation just had a cigarette after sex——worked for us.:-)

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84 posted on 07/28/2018 3:38:56 PM PDT by Mears
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To: Lizavetta

Maybe now that he and I have reached a certain age, it’s like, will this be the last time, (I can’t believe I just posted this”.)

Now with a recent hip replacement and two dislocations in the last 3 weeks, it might be a long time.


85 posted on 07/28/2018 3:43:02 PM PDT by muggs
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To: MortMan
73 posts before someone suggested a valid cause. Only two things bad have happened to me with married, emotionally attached sex:

  1. I don't get it often enough.
  2. Sometimes when I was younger, I was still depositing my you-know-what when she thought I was done.

86 posted on 07/28/2018 3:44:55 PM PDT by Vigilanteman (ObaMao: Fake America, Fake Messiah, Fake Black man. How many fakes can you fit into one Zer0?)
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To: Cowboy Bob
Maybe the sadness comes after they sober up and see what they went to bed with...

Oh when they realize they have to hurry up and get home before their wife becomes suspicious.
87 posted on 07/28/2018 3:56:02 PM PDT by Old Yeller (Auto-correct has become my worst enema.)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

I can explain the sadness. The realization that you spent $ 50 on something other than guns.

CC


88 posted on 07/28/2018 3:57:48 PM PDT by Celtic Conservative (Do you know what really burns my ass? A flame about 3 feet high.)
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To: DoughtyOne

Not saying a word........

Nope.

L


89 posted on 07/28/2018 3:58:58 PM PDT by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: Lazamataz

“It is because for a brief moment I am no longer hitting it..”

Do what Mrs. L and I do.

Make a grubbing sandwich.

Share that sandwich.

Then hit it again.

Harder.

Best,

L


90 posted on 07/28/2018 4:02:22 PM PDT by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: Califreak

I do not avoid women,Mandrake; but I do deny them my essence...


91 posted on 07/28/2018 4:03:38 PM PDT by Hugh the Scot ("The days of being a keyboard commando are over. It's time to get some bloody knuckles." -Drew68)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom
Researchers for the first time ever have identified that women aren’t the only ones who can suffer from this emotional tidal wave in the bedroom, better known as postcoital dysphoria, or PCD. PCD occurs when a person has enjoyable consensual sex with a partner, but is met with “inexplicable feelings of tearfulness, sadness, or irritability” afterwards.

I have the opposite condition: PCE or Postcoital Euphoria. I feel GREAT after sex and so does my GF (who's 10 years younger than me, I might add. :-)

92 posted on 07/28/2018 4:05:19 PM PDT by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

PTSD

PCSD

Post Coitus Sadness Disorder


93 posted on 07/28/2018 4:26:28 PM PDT by Vlad The Inhaler (Liberalism is the philosophy of sniveling brats. - P.J. ORourke)
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To: nickedknack

May your best day be your worst.


94 posted on 07/28/2018 4:29:05 PM PDT by TheNext
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To: usconservative

The only sadness I have is that the years when I invented sex are a distant memory. My best invention ever!


95 posted on 07/28/2018 4:31:44 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom
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To: Billthedrill

“I know I get to feeling that way. Like, “Yeah, that was great but this chicken is going to be on the dinner plate someday.” Can’t let it bring you down...”

Either really funny, or really sick.


96 posted on 07/28/2018 4:36:11 PM PDT by DaxtonBrown
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To: usconservative

Yeah, you should hear what she really said about you!


97 posted on 07/28/2018 4:37:54 PM PDT by dforest (Never let a Muslim cut your hair.)
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

I know some husbands feel like the wife didn’t really want it, so it wasn’t joyous for both, and he also feels it will be weeks of hinting and longing til he gets it again. That’s sad.

Also sad when some dude wakes up in coyote situation in an old motel and she’s still there and all his cocaine is gone. ;)


98 posted on 07/28/2018 4:39:57 PM PDT by Yaelle
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To: Mr Ramsbotham

Bill Clinton always cried after having sex. I think it was the pepper spray.


Ding ding ding, folks, stop your entries, we have a winner!!!


99 posted on 07/28/2018 4:55:31 PM PDT by Yaelle
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To: StAnDeliver
Some guys have PCD only once a month.

100 posted on 07/28/2018 5:21:29 PM PDT by Right Wing Assault ('Kill'-google,TWITR,FACEBK,WaPo,Hollywd,CNN,NFL,BLM,CAIR,Antifa,SPLC,ESPN,NPR,NBA)
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