I was there in the 70s and 80s too and don’t remember too many girls who liked the trashy side. Most of them were looking for decent husbands to be the father of their children.
Undoubtedly, you hung out with the wrong crowd if most of your posts are anything to go by.
I didn't hang out with *any* crowd. I stayed home and read C.S. Lewis and the Inklings. Oh, and Tolkien and Chesterton.
I got married in 1989 at age 22. Almost 30 years, ten children.
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Of course you would name yourself after a Babs song. You share values.