There’s a reason we never hear anyone stand up and declare how fulfilling it is to live a life of promiscuity.
No men do this. No women do this.
Just like you never hear anyone say "I wish I had had a couple more drinks last night."
Then, they transfer their feelings of failure and emptiness onto their friends, or society, or America, or Western Culture. It's less unpleasant than putting the blame where it really belongs.