I’m just afraid that going to the vet...should I be able to capture them....they are going to be so freaked out that they’ll be even wilder than they are now. One of them can’t be touched now. Sooo much like her/his dad. I don’t even know what sex that one is. The only one that I know is a boy is Stubbs. And he likes me. :)
If you catch the females, they’ll have a few days to get used to your attentions while they recuperate in the bathroom. That will calm them down quite a bit.
They might not get near the carrier again afterwards but at least they won’t burden you with more kittens. That’s the most important thing.