Her parents were going through an acrimonious divorce at the time.
As a child, she was quite intelligent, but somewhat "hyper."
Now she talks like a boy, with a spooky, low-pitch voice. I don't know if she's having hormone treatments, but it's possible.
That explains the gender confusion.
Is there any such animal as a non-acrimonious divorce when children are involved?
It’s a real shame. I hope they don’t carve her up to fulfill her absurd fantasy.