I have no problem with people reaching out to someone “in need.”
The NCAA is usually a bunch of jerks about money issues when they don’t get their cut. The NCAA is worse than the mafia.
As a parent I couldn’t imagine taking this extreme a position. OTH, I’d be mighty pissed about it if I’m seeing articles and postings and I don’t know anything about it already. In this case, with a 20 year old you, it seems to me, have to hate the sin and love the sinner. To make it personal, throw in my awful illness, and there’s no way I’m casting loved ones aside. I’m loving them all day for each and every day I still got coming to me. And not ever letting go until I can’t hold on anymore.