Sorry. I did take it personally. I can handle the clinical coldness with which they viewed the Jews; its simply the truth. I just misinterpreted your nailing their coldness as also feeling that way, and I wanted to give you a tiny pointed reminder that some of us lost loved ones. Its ok. I get what you were saying now.
I have no Jewish heritage, but can be profoundly moved by the cautionary and succinct epitaph “ Never forget. “