Duh.. And therein lies the reason so many guys have no desire to make a commitment: commit to whom— a competitor? Why would anyone do that?
Another pro-tip: Women don’t want to compete either. They want partners too.
Why is a woman considered a competitor just because they get an education?
It’s been my experience that men are relieved that women have an education and a well paying job. It takes the pressure off of them to be the sole breadwinner. The man I’m speaking of was born in the early 60’s too-long before “soy-boys” were around.