We have too many people who can’t keep their mouth shut when they have nothing good to say.
Some people just have to think thrice before they open their big trap.
We are adoptive parents, including two Asian kids. People say thoughtless things. As adults we have learned how to deal with it, but it can really hurt children.
Have a good friend in Ohio who, finding she could not have children, adopted a baby girl from El Salvador (very dark skinned, like my daughter-in-law from Nicaragua) and then a baby boy (mostly African) from the Dominican Republic.
While seeing her without her husband with both children in strollers, many whites would treat her badly thinking wasn’t married and she had 2 illegitimate children by 2 different men. She was treated completely different when with her husband......
You fit right in with them honey keep up the good work