How about life long celibate pedophiles? Are they rejoicing too?
Temptation afflicts everybody. For instance, a married man's secret attraction to a random woman. However, if it is not a deliberate fantasy, a plan, or an act, it is not a sin.
If there's consent, there's sin. Jesus told his (male) disciples that to even look at a woman to lust fter her, is a sin. I'm tellin' it straight.
There are other kinds of disordered desire. Like for alcohol. Opiates. Personal dominance. Money, power, and status.
The Gospels warn an awful lot about that.
If freedom from every trace of concupiscence (disordered desire) is needed to be saved, brother, we're doomed.