Having your friends claim that you were murdered because of your surgery, or claiming that receiving a beating instead of being killed over not paying for your drugs isn't going to deter the cartels.
I have known a fair number of transsexuals. They mostly have try to make everything which happens in their lives about their sexual lifestyle.
The homosexual community is that way in general, everything is revolving around their deviant sexual proclivities. It is a sickness of the dead soul.