I think the last thing women in the west these days should be doing is demanding anything from guys.
There is very little that men can get out of some lady that is way too high on themselves and demanding some “cowboy” nonsense, and way too much they can lose.
And women bring next to nothing to the table but fininacal and legal liabilities to make anything but surface hookups attractive to most dudes, let alone anything remotely serious.
Ouch-it sounds as if some selfish bitch left high heel prints on your posterior-that is a shame-but some of us really aren’t into doing that kind of thing...
Personally, I have no use for most women-I refuse to work with them and I have only one female friend-the rest of my friends are men-always have been, even when I was a kid-I find most women dishonest, deceptive, greedy and self absorbed-they want a willing victim of a man-one they can use and control- and can’t handle a fine cowboy/macho man who won’t walk on a leash...
Around here, the phrase cowboy up means to suck it up in general-and where directed at guys, it means take your cojones out of whatever lockbox they are in and act like a real man instead of a wuss soyboy.
I have never brought a single legal or financial liability to my man’s table-I’m an equal-brought up by my parents to be self sufficient and to bring an income/assets to a partnership-not liabilities. But then I’m not any man’s shack job or bootie call, either-I require the same respect I give to a man-without mutual trust and respect, there can’t be a relationship worth having...
There’s even a term for it.
Divorce-rape.