Who's fighting the wars? The offspring of the "12 million" illegals who are now very much fighting age? If just 4 million of them were women and they had 5 kids a piece and 3 were boys--I'd venture you got a nice size fighting force there. That's not even counting the untold million men of fighting age that have come in in the past ten years. Not even counting the many 100s of thousands of fighting age that came in just this year.
Send them. Because you aint getting my kid, not ever.
Unless your kid volunteers for our volunteer army.