They still want to marry up.
The guy whos career has been throttled by woke industry is unappealing.
TRUE!
The solution? Marry earlier. Approach marriage as a partnership to build a life and family, not as a trophy to mark achievement of another status goal.
In 2 sentence.
Plus they think, that what makes them hot for men (power, rising in the world) is what makes men want *them*.
But the character traits you develop to acquire power, are the very opposite of what a man wants in a woman!
While men also become physically less attractive over time, their power and status rises, which continues to attract women. Men, on the other hand, could care less about a woman's socioeconomic status, she added.
Powerful men can marry their secretary and no one blinks an eye. It doesn't work the other way around only because women care so much about society's opinion. Women just have to readjust their thinking and look for a good man, not the prototype perfect man, and stop worrying about what others think.
And it shows an insane lack of self awareness to have discriminated against men in education and employment, then say women are the victims that there aren’t enough good enough guys.
Id like to talk to you about my daughter whos a high achiever, the mom began. Shes a thirty-eight-year-old, well-educated (two Ivy League schools), creative, intelligent, sophisticated, loving, successful, attractive, with a model-like body, and surprisingly cant find a desired partner.
But she’s a despicable bitch to be around! Don’t know why she can’t find a man!
I remember reading a post by a young lawyer who was bored to death by corporate practice, even though it paid very well. He went back and got his masters in psychology and most of his clients were women partners in law firms. They had come out of law school and put their noses to the grind to make money and make partner after 7-10 years, figuring they could put their social lives on hold until they were fully settled, and then with their positions of success and income, could marry whom they chose among the young male lawyers. They didn’t realize that at 33-35 the young guys in similar positions want to date the 22 year old legal assistants not a partner of their rank and income and they wouldn’t dare date a plumber, farmer or carpenter. So they are bitter, angry and often latch on and live vicariously through an 18 or 22 year old niece who has graduated from college and has no money whom they will take on expensive trips and “live through” their fun experiences. Its a poor substitute.