Posted on 02/11/2020 6:51:49 AM PST by Kaslin
June may be more famous for nuptials, especially outdoor ceremonies.
However, February is hands-down the most marriage-and-romance-centric month. It’s National Wedding Month, has National Marriage Week (Feb. 7-14), and, of course, Valentine’s Day (Feb. 14).
So, break out the roses and chocolate.
Valentine’s Day is named after a Christian saint who was most probably martyred on Feb. 14, 269 A.D. for marrying Christian couples in defiance of a Roman government edict, and for assisting persecuted Christians.
Today, as with many traditions in Western culture that had a Christian origin, Valentine’s Day has broadened into a secular festivity, boosted by major marketing of all things romantic, such as cards, flowers, chocolates and jewelry.
Its ties to marriage itself are still strong, epitomized by the happy endings in Hallmark romance movies.
Without marriage, nothing works. It’s the key to stability, peace, wealth and progress. We tamper with it at our great peril. The welfare state’s shattering of marriage-based families in the inner cities and the chaos that followed is perhaps the most glaring evidence of marriage’s importance.
Marriage-based family life is the organizing principle behind all civilized cultures. It brings the sexes together in a unique legal, social, economic and spiritual union. Because it’s indispensable, societies have accorded it various protections and privileges not granted to other types of unions.
June may be more famous for nuptials, especially outdoor ceremonies.
However, February is hands-down the most marriage-and-romance-centric month. It’s National Wedding Month, has National Marriage Week (Feb. 7-14), and, of course, Valentine’s Day (Feb. 14).
So, break out the roses and chocolate.
Valentine’s Day is named after a Christian saint who was most probably martyred on Feb. 14, 269 A.D. for marrying Christian couples in defiance of a Roman government edict, and for assisting persecuted Christians.
Today, as with many traditions in Western culture that had a Christian origin, Valentine’s Day has broadened into a secular festivity, boosted by major marketing of all things romantic, such as cards, flowers, chocolates and jewelry.
Its ties to marriage itself are still strong, epitomized by the happy endings in Hallmark romance movies.
Without marriage, nothing works. It’s the key to stability, peace, wealth and progress. We tamper with it at our great peril. The welfare state’s shattering of marriage-based families in the inner cities and the chaos that followed is perhaps the most glaring evidence of marriage’s importance.
Marriage-based family life is the organizing principle behind all civilized cultures. It brings the sexes together in a unique legal, social, economic and spiritual union. Because it’s indispensable, societies have accorded it various protections and privileges not granted to other types of unions.
Likewise, the pagan philosopher Confucius (551 to 479 B.C.) wrote that marriage is “the foundation of government,” and that, "It is said in the Book of Poetry: 'A happy union with wife and children is like the music of lutes and harps.”
Marriage can rapidly turn a boy into a man, as he first commits to protecting and supporting his wife, and then his children and grandchildren. Likewise, a solid marriage affords women the security in which they can thrive while maturing and giving unselfishly to their husbands, children and communities.
Grandparents, one ring ahead on the growing trunk of the family tree, provide even more richness to the family. Marriage and the family’s continuity through the generations is celebrated throughout the Bible.
Proverbs 18:22 says: “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD; Proverbs 31:10 says a virtuous wife’s “worth is far above rubies.”
One of the most unfortunate modern myths is that relationships work if each spouse meets the other halfway. But they work best when husbands and wives each give 100 percent, not totaling up a relative exchange while “looking out for No. 1.”
Grace – undeserved mercy – is at the heart of Jesus’ love for humanity, and grace is what makes a good marriage work. God gave us marriage because He loves us and wants us to thrive.
That warm thought should help get us (especially in northern climates) through the frosty month of February – and beyond.
Nice article. THanks.
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