What a surprise that most of these gender confused low-self esteem people could probably find a simple benefit in rock climbing or sky-diving or lifting heavy weights twice a week. Maybe learning chess would help? I sincerely believe their sexual confusion lies in low self-esteem. They look towards their body, rather than mind. Just hit some baseballs for males; hit some volley balls for the females. Or learn martial arts to fight. Got hormone problems? Get a shot or take supplements. I’m sick of this crap - I don’t know what I should be. XX = female. XY = male. Female tomboys and weakling males have existed forever. Doesn’t mean they should mutilate themselves to join the fashionable Rainbow club.
It never happens. The abuse only gets worse/
But by then the person is so messed up mentally that they can't function except to engage in self-harming behaviors. And while there's plenty who will think that the tough-love approach works, it doesn't when they are in that stage. Simple honesty but with compassion does work - along with a drumbeat of "go get professional help" which sometimes helps and sometimes doesn't.
Long story short after a life of horror he decided to blow his brains out in his 30s.