Read their agendas. . .who would let their kids join either organization. Find an alternative. . .they are out there.
If I had scouting-age children I wouldn’t let them anywhere near either the BSA or the GSA. But under the BIDEN regime it won’t surprise me to learn that membership is made legally mandatory! If that sounds implausible, perhaps you need to learn what just can mandated under Communist dictatorships.
Conservative Boy Scout Alternatives
https://wehavekids.com/youth-programs/Conservative-Boy-Scout-Alternatives
Girl Scout Alternatives
https://wehavekids.com/youth-programs/Girl-Scout-Alternatives