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Your ‘Fur-Babies’ Are Not A Good Or Healthy Replacement For Human Babies
The Federalist ^ | August 6, 2021 | Nathanial Blake

Posted on 08/06/2021 6:51:53 AM PDT by Kaslin

Replacing babies with pets stifles a person’s capacity to give and receive love, as it wrongly directs our greatest earthly affections toward ourselves.


In a recent Fox News piece, sociologist Andrea Laurent-Simpson writes of the emergence of “multispecies families,” explaining that in “child-free families…dogs and cats paw in to fill a longing to nurture” and would-be grandparents “readily shift over to spoiling the granddog as their daughters and sons choose instead to pursue lucrative careers.” But this is neither good nor new.

The ancient historian Plutarch began his life of Pericles with an anecdote about Caesar, who, upon seeing “wealthy foreigners in Rome carrying puppies and young monkeys about in their bosoms and fondling them” asked, “if the women in their country did not bear children.” Plutarch thought this a “princely” rebuke of “those who squander on animals that proneness to love and loving affection which is ours by nature, and which is due only to our fellow-men.”

Another ancient text tells us that there is nothing new under the sun. There is certainly nothing new about treating pets as substitutes for children, though it does seem to be more common of late, a trend that debases us and deforms our pets — literally in some cases. The overbreeding of dogs has, for instance, produced breeds that struggle to breathe or routinely need C-sections to give birth. If these people love dogs, then it is with a selfish and consumerist sort of love.

Dogs Are Good Beasts — But Still Beasts

Of course, we ought to love our pets. But this love must be directed to them as the animals they are, rather than as mere objects for our amusement, or as substitutes for children. I love my dogs and try to take good care of them. They were bred to be loveable, and they are entertaining and affectionate. And they have a place in family life. With the right training and supervision, dogs and kids are great for each other. My daughter really, really loves our dogs. Notably, neither she nor the dogs are confused about who is the human. That sort of disordered affection requires an adult.

Pets may be valuable companions to the lonely and childless, but it is perverse to make this palliative measure into a preference, deliberately rejecting children in favor of a pampered pet. Dogs are capable of giving and receiving affection, but there is a point past which the personalities that enthusiastic owners ascribe to them are anthropomorphic projections. In such cases, pets are treated like animate dolls — repositories of the interpersonal needs and longings of their owners. The substitution of pets for people thereby stifles a person’s capacity to give and receive love, as it wrongly directs our greatest earthly affections toward ourselves.

The proliferation of twee “dog moms” and “fur babies” and “grandpuppies” illustrates American self-indulgence and cultural decadence. Marriage and birth rates are declining as people abandon the basic biological imperative of pairing off and having children. Filling the interpersonal void with dogs is an understandable response to this.

But what we need are other persons. We are, in important ways, incomplete and not fully human on our own. As Aristotle long ago noted, man is a social animal, and a man who can live without others must be either a beast or a god — people who don’t need people aren’t really people.

The Christian may add that in exceptional circumstances or vocations a few people may need to rely entirely on animal companionship and the person of God, but there is no good reason to deliberately turn to beasts in place of persons.

The Human Condition Requires New Humans

Trying to turn pets into substitute children gives the game away. It is the very old trick of having one’s cake and eating it too. This substitution is an attempt to satisfy the human longings to love and nurture new persons, and to be loved by them in turn, without the labor, responsibility and risk of having children. But there is no substituting for the human person, and even the best of pets is only a shadow of a copy of the reality of human family.

The difference is one of depth. The mature and the wise have pleasures and satisfactions, as well as pains, of which the childish and foolish know nothing. Parenting requires much more self-giving and self-sacrifice than having a pet, but it also provides a fuller and more substantial life. The best dog in the world is nothing compared to the begetting of a new person through the loving union of a mother and father united for life and dedicated to the care of their children.

But for many, this increasingly seems like an impossible ideal. It is easy to direct (deserved) opprobrium at the apostles of the “child-free interspecies family” lifestyle, but this does little to help those who feel that a stable marriage and children are out of reach. Thus, we must work, culturally and politically, to make it easier for people to form and maintain families, and for those who remain single to still be involved in family life. If we do not do this, we may find our nation literally going to the dogs.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Miscellaneous
KEYWORDS: babies; beasts; birthrates; children; dogs; furbabies; grandparents; humans; love; marriage; mgtow; parents; pets; redpill
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To: Kaslin

Children are sexually transmitted diseases. I raised 2 of them.


41 posted on 08/06/2021 7:30:09 AM PDT by dware (Americans prefer peaceful slavery over dangerous freedom)
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To: z3n

she’s preggo now i think. IVF, i think she’s 40.


42 posted on 08/06/2021 7:30:16 AM PDT by ronniesgal (so I wonder what his FR handle is???? )
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To: Jim from C-Town

I take it you are a white father looking for government subsidies for your children.

So go special-interest justifications for enslaving others (since taxation is backed by physical enforcement).


43 posted on 08/06/2021 7:30:34 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: Responsibility2nd
I tend to view people who refer to their ‘fur-babies’ as somewhat emotionally stunted.

I bet you're just a whole lot of fun at parties.

44 posted on 08/06/2021 7:31:27 AM PDT by dware (Americans prefer peaceful slavery over dangerous freedom)
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To: rlmorel

I always found “furbabies” kind of gross as well.


45 posted on 08/06/2021 7:31:37 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: cyclotic

“It’s an animal. Their loyalty to you ends when the food ends.”

I’m about as cynical as you can get (see my other post on this thread)... but this is not a true statement for all pets. Some yes, absolutely, but some animals, dogs in particular, can be fiercely loyal to their owners, even if those owners starve and abuse them.


46 posted on 08/06/2021 7:32:28 AM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: Responsibility2nd

Agreed.


47 posted on 08/06/2021 7:33:49 AM PDT by crusty old prospector
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To: Dilbert San Diego

Agreed.


48 posted on 08/06/2021 7:34:07 AM PDT by crusty old prospector
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To: Kaslin

A second of early morning titillation as I misread “babies” as “burgers” ... ah what the hey!


49 posted on 08/06/2021 7:34:33 AM PDT by glennaro (Dennis Prager: "Until it's safe" means "Never")
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To: ronniesgal

Thanks, you’re a peach.


50 posted on 08/06/2021 7:37:37 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (DEFEAT THE COUP D'ETAT BY THE STALINAZI DERP STATE !)
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To: ronniesgal
"I have 2 kids- and my dogs are not them."

Of course not. That said, a good border collie or shepherd can be quite useful keeping the human kids in line.

51 posted on 08/06/2021 7:39:54 AM PDT by Joe 6-pack
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To: Kaslin

Blah, blah, blah. Now we have pet Karen’s. 😆


52 posted on 08/06/2021 7:40:08 AM PDT by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: Kaslin

I eat dogs. Hot dogs that is. Preferably with grilled onions,Dijon mustard and sauerkraut.


53 posted on 08/06/2021 7:40:18 AM PDT by HighSierra5 (The only way you know a commie is lying is when they open their pieholes.)
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To: glennaro

Fur burgers are good.


54 posted on 08/06/2021 7:41:31 AM PDT by HighSierra5 (The only way you know a commie is lying is when they open their pieholes.)
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To: HighSierra5

They discontinued those mostly after the early 1980s.


55 posted on 08/06/2021 7:43:43 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (DEFEAT THE COUP D'ETAT BY THE STALINAZI DERP STATE !)
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To: Jewbacca

My 3 German Shepherds would die before ever harming me or my wife.

Numerous times they put themselves between danger and us.
They never even delay in thinking about it.

Herd of Elk (Elk are quite aggressive).
Bear.
And a stalking coyote.

Our Shepherds are a mix of East and West German Shepherd dogs.

The East Germans bred dogs to be big and strong but didn’t focus on AKC standards or intelligence so much. They wanted them for military/border guarding.

Western Shepherds are the more common American type breeds. Smaller, but smart as a whip.

When the Wall came down……..people began to breed together and so did their pure blood German Shepherds. LOL

You are correct, we are a pack. Each pack member’s survival depends on other pack members in my dog’s opinion.

On carry a S&W .357 magnum when home (9mm in public) not to protect myself, but to protect my stupidly brave dogs!


56 posted on 08/06/2021 7:45:51 AM PDT by David Chase
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To: Responsibility2nd

“Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe I missed seeing millions of WWII vets some 60 years ago with Sergeant on a leash in the local restaurant.”

Because we were stupid and ignorant back then.

My uncle was in the Battle of the Bulge. Him and one other guy surived out of their entire platoon. He was severly wounded and spent a year in a hospital

When he died at age 94 he said he had nightmares of being chased by Germans 3-5 nights per week his entire life.

He finally got some PTSD training at age 90. He said he wished he had the PTSD training when he got out-it would have saved him a lifetime of grief and nightmares.

Times are different.


57 posted on 08/06/2021 7:45:52 AM PDT by setter
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To: dware
I tend to view people who refer to their ‘fur-babies’ as somewhat emotionally stunted.

I bet you're just a whole lot of fun at parties

 

Yeah. I recall one party where the host's fur-babies were the center of attention all night. "Look how cute Squeaky is. Jump Squeaky!"

I've never been back there again, that's for sure.

58 posted on 08/06/2021 7:46:01 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (I love my country. It's my government that I hate.)
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To: cyclotic

“It’s an animal. Their loyalty to you ends when the food ends.”

Total BS


59 posted on 08/06/2021 7:46:58 AM PDT by setter
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Most of the women who have fur babies should not have real children — ever


60 posted on 08/06/2021 7:48:38 AM PDT by dsrtsage ( Complexity is just simple lacking imagination)
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