Ask not why your kids should to be exposed to outrageous poofters in drag, ask why outrageous poofters want to be nearer to your kids.
Seriously. I don’t want to be around other peoples’ kids. Kids are mostly annoying. Unless they are my relatives, or you are going to pay me to put up with them, I’d rather not.
Anyone feeling differently, unless they are maybe a childless woman, I find suspect.