What’s this ‘civilized western world’ of which you speak.
It’s the world you live in, apparently. Nobody is stopping you from living in a fascist police state like Russia. There a lots of lonely and bitter women there waiting for you.
There is no civilized anything. It’s a veneer of respectability the western elites use occasionally. To hoodwink and keep the sheep in check. The barbarity is displayed when it serves their purposes. And if you think their purposes are anymore noble than any run of the mill dictatorship or shithole than you are a fool