[Theoria]

Apache aren't the Crow. The Inde always fought and raided. It was their history, and they chose to fight to the bitter end. Ask yourself, should your beliefs and customs of today surrender to the left, or government, or fight until you get wiped out or surrender under government terms.

[AnAmericanMother]

Of course the Apache weren't the Apsaroka.

They weren't bad fighters themselves, just more prudent. Choose your battles.