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Starbucks Barista’s ‘Secret Note’ on Cup to Help Young Woman Sparks Heated Debate: ‘What Are Men Supposed to Do?’
New York Post ^ | Oct. 18, 2023

Posted on 10/18/2023 11:37:16 AM PDT by nickcarraway

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To: nickcarraway

Men hit on women… no not all women want to be hit on, but hardly is that an assault of some sort.

Women offering other women an “out” when someone is bothering them is pretty much just looking out for each other.

Think way too much being made out of this


21 posted on 10/18/2023 11:54:37 AM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: nickcarraway

I think it was smart of the employee. Most likely, everything would’ve been OK, but you just never know...


22 posted on 10/18/2023 11:55:10 AM PDT by MayflowerMadam ("Normal" is never coming back.)
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To: nickcarraway

Big Brother and 1984 is a creation of the female, the more they spread out from the home in mass numbers since the 1960s, the more Orwellian life becomes.


23 posted on 10/18/2023 11:55:42 AM PDT by ansel12 ((NATO warrior under Reagan, and RA under Nixon, bemoaning the pro-Russians from Vietnam to Ukraine.))
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To: nickcarraway

The barista acted properly. He/she was looking out for her.


24 posted on 10/18/2023 11:58:47 AM PDT by I want the USA back (Democracy dies when you take away from those who work and give to those who won't. Khrushchev.)
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To: Leaning Right

We do need more of that. Give this barista a promotion!


25 posted on 10/18/2023 11:59:15 AM PDT by monkeyshine (live and let live is dead)
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To: nickcarraway

Been a long time since I heard anything in the “feel good” category related to Starbucks....


26 posted on 10/18/2023 12:00:56 PM PDT by SuperLuminal (Where is the next Sam Adams when we so desperately need him)
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To: ansel12

If women find you unattractive you are creepy, but if they find you attractive the rules change in a hurry....

The average guy often has no clue where he falls on that spectrum since he has not given it much thought.


27 posted on 10/18/2023 12:02:17 PM PDT by cgbg ("Creative minds have always been known to survive any kind of bad training." Anna Freud.)
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To: Trailerpark Badass
There is nothing remotely attractive about young women today.

One takes what one can get. There are few elegant, non-vulgar, non-tattooed, well-spoken, traditional, gentle-women out there. They are almost an extinct species.

So young guys settle for women who at least don't hate men.

28 posted on 10/18/2023 12:02:44 PM PDT by PGR88
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To: Varda

So the reverse is okay then?


29 posted on 10/18/2023 12:03:00 PM PDT by mrmeyer (You can't conquer a free man; the most you can do is kill him. Roberor thert Heinlein)
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To: nickcarraway

Three thoughts:

1) It was probably nice for the barista to check in and see if help was desired.
2) Women should not strut around and act all “empowered” if they can’t handle a man approaching them in a coffee shop.
3) Women should not strut around and act all “empowered” if they depend on strangers to intervene and rescue them from awkward situations.

Feminism has convinced many women that they are powerful. What I see are a lot of weak, fragile neurotics who can’t function in perfectly normal situations.


30 posted on 10/18/2023 12:04:11 PM PDT by ClearCase_guy (They say "Our Democracy" but they mean Cosa Nostra.)
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To: mrmeyer

I didn’t say that. I said men and women are different. However, you seem to be defending aggressive behavior by a strange man toward a girl. Why is that?


31 posted on 10/18/2023 12:06:14 PM PDT by Varda
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To: Nifster
Don't approach younger women you don't know. That's creepy

Disagree.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with striking up a conversation with someone.

32 posted on 10/18/2023 12:07:16 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Keep America Beautiful by keeping Canadian Trash Out. Deport Jennifer Granholm!)
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To: Trailerpark Badass

Bastards!


33 posted on 10/18/2023 12:07:53 PM PDT by mpackard (Donald Trump broke the Democrats)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

Yes there is. If you don’t know them and they are obviously studying it is flat out creepy


34 posted on 10/18/2023 12:13:17 PM PDT by Nifster ( I see puppy dogs in the clouds )
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To: nickcarraway

She looked up and saw a row of simps hoping to white knight into her pants…lol


35 posted on 10/18/2023 12:14:38 PM PDT by Ajnin (Don't be a pansy, embrace the fireball.)
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To: Nifster

If we don’t approach people we don’t know... We never meet anyone, no one falls in love, and the species dies out...


36 posted on 10/18/2023 12:16:12 PM PDT by Dead Corpse (A Psalm in napalm...)
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To: nickcarraway

Hard to know what to do unless you are there.
I was at a hotel in CA when an pretty hot woman and a sleezy guy entered hotel.
In my mind its said 90% chance client and worker.
Entered my room and 15 min later the two were in the hall exchanging insults.

I could have ignored it but decided to open the door, ask woman if she was ok.
She said “no” and needed help.
I said “go into my room, close the door and I will get the manager”

All ended well and I wasn’t shot but sometimes you know what is the right thing to do.


37 posted on 10/18/2023 12:19:49 PM PDT by Zathras
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To: nickcarraway

And what would the counter person do if the woman was being hit on by another woman? Would she even notice?


38 posted on 10/18/2023 12:24:08 PM PDT by PIF (They came for me and mine ... now its your turn)
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To: ansel12
Big Brother and 1984 is a creation of the female, the more they spread out from the home in mass numbers since the 1960s, the more Orwellian life becomes.

It was written by a man in 1949...but ok, lets ignore the abuses of the "patriot" act.

39 posted on 10/18/2023 12:26:55 PM PDT by mac_truck (aide toi et dieu t'aidera)
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To: nickcarraway

Sometimes taking a lid off a coffee cub merely means you want to drink your coffee.


40 posted on 10/18/2023 12:28:57 PM PDT by ChessExpert (Required for informed consent: "We have a new, experimental vaccine.")
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