Many years ago, I was in a strip club in the combat zone of Boston. My buddy went ga ga over a dancer. She was flirting with him and he was stuffing dollars in her like she was a piggy bank. I finally said, dude, she doesn’t really like you.
That was my experience with a stripper as well, they pretend to like you until they find that they can’t get anything from you.
In my case, it was just somebody who thought they could use me for rides and whatnot, when I did them a kindness.