Nothing is more destructive than a vindictive woman. Wife, partner, even a sister. This I know from bitter experience. Fortunately it was in the 1970s, long before this “red flag” cancer brewed up.
My ex-wife back in the early 70’s sicced her lawyer on me to pay for her college tuition, told her lawyer to go to hell.
Her lawyer said they would garnish my wages, told him fine, I would quit my job and just disappear and I knew how to do it.
Never heard form the lawyer or the ex again!