My wife was not particularly religious, yet had some godly virtues, when we met (she was 20, I was 23).
Both of us were saving ourselves for marriage, yet hung out at places that were not thought of as godly or virtuous (bars, night clubs, and discos).
When she made her position clear about waiting until marriage, she said she was not on the pill, and never would be. It was one of the many things about her that impressed me. Feeling quite well mentally and physically, all but a couple of days each month, was worth it to her. No high BP, no water retention.
Saved a LOT of money too.
I have read a lot of studies which show women while on the ‘pill’ prefer different types of men,.
I read one where even the preference to the sweat of men changed.
And the stories of women who get married while on the pill, then going odd getting pregnant, going through massive hormonal changes and getting divorced
What a wonderful and heartwarming testimony of true FREE love!