I wonder if you've run across some exposition on other paradox in the current physics. One is the "twin paradox" where one brother rockets off into space at 0.99 C for a period of time and comes back to earth to find his twin brother quite older. Now since the time dilation is due to relative speeds, how come the earth bound brother is not younger, having speed off from his rocketship bound brother at 0.99 C? What happens if both rocket off in opposite directions (but in a circular path), so that they meet sometime in the future? Who will be older?
Or another strange paradox: how did the universe expand outside of the Swartzchild radius after the big-bang? I mean, here we have the hypothesis that all matter may eventually collapse into black holes that it can never escape from, and the opposite hypothesis that the universe originated from a singularity that was obviously smaller than the Swartzchild radius for the matter contained in the universe.
On the Big Bang and the Swartzchild radius, heres a nice discussion of Symmetry Principles of the Unified Field Theory.
As for me, however, I tend to a higher dimensional dynamic solution such as this one: Space-Time-Matter Consortium
For a thorough discussion of the theory click here
It has been exciting for me to watch them develop this theory over the past few years. I now tend to visualize the observed realm at 4 coordinates as an unfortunate selection of coordinates from a higher dimensional dynamic. Under their theory, the big bang itself, could be a higher dimensional shock wave. Here's more on how the theory holds with regard to:
Astrophysics
Cosomology
Particle Physics
"Out of the box" thinking has a great appeal to me. Perhaps it might to you, also!